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The key to finding true love? Attracting the right person to you. Sounds so simple. But so many things get in the way. Things like our own insecurities and expectations can cloud our judgment and send out all kinds of the wrong signals, which means the right person for us isn’t attracted to us.
To fix this, do everything in your power to be your true self. The person who loves football or making homemade apple pie or staying in every Wednesday to watch Top Chef. Whatever your passion, let it out. Like I said, it sounds so simple. But when we date, sometimes we want to get along with someone so badly that we push away the things that make us who we are.
If you want to attract your match, figure out the things that bring you happiness. Get back to doing your favorite hobby. Write your book. Do some woodworking. Find that hobby or activity where you lose yourself for hours. Those are the things that bring out your passion and will ultimately attract your match.
You know how when someone is talking about something they love, they get excited and start telling you little details? Even if you aren’t remotely interested in their hobby, they become attractive, because they are showing you their passion. It’s the same thing with dating.
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I concur. I’ve been thinking a lot about this in the past few days, so it’s great thing to hear it said again. it’s hard to be yourself because you want to turn yourself into someone you think he/she wants. but really you’re best shot is being yourself. gosh is it hard to get that perspective sometimes though.
I’ve tried online dating, and while its ok, its kind of a slow way to find someone that is compatible. Thought I’d mention that since I started using Weopia my offline meetings have been much much better. Hope that helps someone.