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Tuesday, November 25, 2008 - 7:42 am ET
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Stage Fright

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This is what stage fright looks like.

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This is what it looks like when you have stage fright, but you do it anyway.

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Even I can’t figure out why I have stage fright. It’s inexplicably bizarre. I am great in a crowd, I’m an engaging conversationalist in a group, I have something to say here every single day and I have no problem raising my hand or volunteering in a classroom setting.

What is my problem with preparing something and speaking in public?

I’m giving my first Toastmasters speech tonight. I’m blanking out and have nothing prepared, and I have butterflies in my stomach and feel like I have to pee constantly. I’m not getting enough breath.

I’m starting to think it’s the preparing that gives me the anxiety. I’m great at seat-of-my-pants, but preparing produces more anxiety.

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Tuesday, November 25, 2008 - 7:42 am ET
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3 Comments

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  1. Erwin Tan

    I have stage fright too.. Even till today..

    But I always get through it by speeding up my speech.. haha

  2. Tracee Sioux

    I’m going to try spontaneous next time. I told the organizer to pencil me in for a last minute cancellation.

  3. that girl

    Girl I”m the same WAY. I had to speak for a United way thing last week and I thought I was going to pass out! I lost my train of thought and just stumbled through my prepared little spill..it was awful. Maybe it IS the preparing.

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